When someone asks me what I think about myself I will tell them more negatives than postitive. There are many things that I love about myself but there are many that I hate. Tonight I was trying to talk to a friend of mine on the phone and she wouldn't pick up.. When I have asked her politely to pick up through text.. She tells me she sounds like a guy due to being sick (Which she doesn't.. she sounds like an angel to me ;-D).
A girl will say that she looks fat, looks or sounds like a guy, she is ugly, she is blah... even though to the people that get to look at her think she is the most beautiful thing anyone has ever seen.A lot of people look at celebrities in magazines as people we should be more like.. Are they cool? YES, Are they rich? YES but, do you know them as a human being and not as a sex symbol in movies and in the media? I honestly think a person should be measured by how they treat their peers and people around them and not by their wealth snd/or popularity.
We all know that this life isn't permanent. We all are going to die some day and when that day comes.. What do you think you are going to take with you? A rolex that you had on your wrist at formal get togethers, the sweet Bentley Continental GT that you've spent 180,000 dollars on just to get you to Point A to Point B? No.. All we can take with us are the memories of having those things. I believe each person will be judged on how we were towards other people. Did we take the time to listen to other's problems? When this person needed help, how much help did we give that person and how much more could we have given to him or her? I know this life is going to kick you in the gut when things start to go south just like the economy but you have to stay positive and remember that there is so much more after this life.I believe in being kind, caring, loving, etc. is very attractive and sexy.. just like a girl wearing her hair down while cuddling during a movie with me with her painted toes sticking inside of my sock to keep her feet warm.. That is a very simple thing and yet its the most sexiest thing ever. I don't know why we think badly about ourselves but we do.. its in human-nature but I don't think its supposed to happpen. I don't think its right. I think if you are a good person with a big heart then you're awesome and no one should ever say a negative thing towards you.
I just wish that someday we can use the eyes of other's to look through as we see ourself in the mirror. I think life would be a lot easier if that was possible.
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